Hello world. The following was written 10/27/2015.
The negative judgments and opinions of others are something we are taught from the cradle to believe as truth. To seek them out and or give an opinion or judgment of everyone and everything around us or that we experience. Consider that for just a moment. Now think about every single thought that comes into your mind on a moment to moment basis. How many of those are negative judgments you were taught to believe in as truth?
Anytime we judge anyone else for any reason we are actually judging ourselves. Deep down inside we actually feel that way about ourselves. Anytime someone is passing a negative judgment on you recognize that, that is how they really feel about themselves.
Remember we are taught to not just accept the judgments of others but to also seek them out. Something else we are taught to do is to own those judgments as our own. To believe them and enact them on ourselves in a sort of religious reverence. I am this because they said I am. If they think it, it must be true. Oh, but, society says… I CALL BULLSHIT!!!!
You are absolutely perfect as you are no matter the state of that body you are in. The only opinion about it that matters is your own. No one else's opinion matters in any way for any reason. Not mine, your husbands, wives, daughters, sons, brothers, sisters, mothers, fathers, grandparents, friends, family in general, society…NONE of them matter. Yours is the only one that matters. You need to accept you for you exactly as you are no matter what circumstances you may be going through.
Until society learns to stop judging and accepting the judgments of others, we as individuals must start with ourselves. We must learn to stop judging ourselves. As we learn to stop judging ourselves and start accepting ourselves we start to see how everyone around us are just like us. They are our equals in every way. Their circumstances may be different. But our lessons and journeys are really very similar. We are taught to judge them as different, right, wrong, good or bad. Just as we judge ourselves.
Stop owning the judgments and opinions of others. Realize you are perfect exactly as you are. God does not make mistakes. Those judgments we make are our way of saying we believe God has made a mistake and I am that mistake. God doesn't make mistakes. God isn't capable of mistakes. God is only capable of absolute perfection. You are perfect my love. You are loved. I love you.
Holy Spirit is giving me some wonderful insights into the human conditioning called belief in judgments.
Blessings on your journeys my brothers. Hugs and love. You are loved. I love you.